Nobody at home is lazy. And it still doesn't work.
Every task has three phases: noticing, deciding, doing. The first two usually sit in one person's head. Family Fair Play shows who carries which part and helps you agree on who takes over a whole task.
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It wasn't a robotic manager. It was a mirror — and it didn't take my side.
Roman Bednár, PhD.
This isn't about laziness or personality. These are mechanisms at work in every household.
When someone “takes over” a task, they usually take over only the doing. Noticing and deciding stay with the same person — and that's the part you can't switch off.
Read more: The three phases of every task no one talks about
It's called the default parent. Every question, every deadline, every “did we forget to…” routes through them. Not because anyone asked — it just happened.
Read more: The default parent: who becomes the household switchboard everything lands on
It's called availability bias. That's why when you both estimate your share, the total comes to well over 100 %. And you're both being honest.
Read more: From "I feel like I do more" to a shared map
“Just tell me what to do” doesn't reduce the work — it moves it. While you wait to be told, the list still lives in one head.
The three phases of a task come from Allison Daminger's research (2019). Availability bias was described by Ross and Sicoly back in 1979.
Three steps. Nothing to invent — the app asks, and works out the rest.
Add members and tasks — pick from over 150 ready-made templates, so you're not starting from a blank page. Including the things that were never written down anywhere.
Each task is scored on time, mental load, criticality and how easily someone else can take it over. That's why doing the dishes and planning a holiday don't weigh the same.
One number instead of two feelings. Not a verdict — a map you can finally look at together.
If someone sent you this link, you're not reading a reproach. What you carry shows up on the map too.
How much mental load, criticality and substitutability count for is up to you, in the settings. It isn't our verdict on your household.
Insurance, servicing, deadlines, decisions made in advance. Member cards separate physical time from mental load — including yours.
Open the live demo. It's read-only, no email and no account.
Not another to-do list. Each feature takes one thing out of your head that you carry alone today.
When a child has an age-appropriate task and can see it themselves, they stop waiting to be reminded. Stars are the fuel — ownership is the point.

Kids earn stars for every toy they put away. Once they reach the goal, a family movie night or a favorite treat awaits.
Family Fair Play wasn't designed at a desk. It started when there were divorce papers on our kitchen table.
I took over two tasks. Watering the plants and mopping the floor, about 15 minutes a week. The value wasn't in those 15 minutes. It was that two items disappeared from her head for good.
All of Family Fair Play can be driven by the AI assistant you already use. It's a topic of its own — it has its own page.
One more thing before you start
But the app takes over the explaining.
Creating an account, listing tasks, convincing your partner — that is exactly the kind of work Family Fair Play measures. So it's built to ask you for one step and say the rest for you.
Phone reminders, partner messages and the Fairness Index are part of the Full Picture plan. You can start for free, no card.
Transparent pricing with no hidden fees. One price for the whole family, no matter how many members.
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A paid plan goes straight to payment — you set up your account right after, with a password. By purchasing you consent to immediate access; you may withdraw within 14 days for a full refund (support@familyfairplay.com). First Look is free and needs no card.
The book
The Fair Household is a practical guide for couples who are both tired and done arguing. 12 chapters, 12 exercises and a 30-day plan you can follow without the app.
Instant PDF download. Every book comes with a code for 3 months of Premium.
Yes — short video tutorials for everyday steps (adding a household member, generating tasks with the wizard, adding a task via an AI agent) are on the Tutorials page, linked from the site footer.
Your data isn't the product. Your household's data is isolated from everyone else's, sensitive settings are protected by a parent PIN, and you can delete your account and all its data yourself at any time.
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