You're both overwhelmed. And you're both right.

Yes. Your data is isolated and sensitive settings are protected by a parental PIN.

Mental load is the invisible work — planning, reminding, coordinating. FFP scores it by each task's difficulty, criticality and how replaceable it is, and counts it into the fairness index — not just the time spent doing chores.

Start on your own — you enter the tasks and the load once, and the Fairness Index shows the real split. It works best when your partner looks too, which is why the page has a section written for them and a live demo with no sign-up. They don't have to set anything up; looking is enough.

Free gives you 4 members, 20 tasks and kiosk mode forever. Premium (from €1.99/mo) unlocks unlimited members and tasks, analytics, exports and notifications — one price for the whole household, not per person.

Anytime in the app: Settings → Premium → Manage subscription (Stripe portal). Your plan runs until the end of the paid period and is not charged again. The lifetime licence never renews — you pay once.

Right in the app: Settings → Privacy & data → Delete household. Deletion is immediate and irreversible — it removes data and member accounts and cancels any active subscription (GDPR Art. 17). You can download a data export first.

Through kiosk mode on a tablet or phone: a child picks their avatar, ticks off a finished task and sees their stars right away. Their own PIN protects their profile, and a parent PIN protects settings and analytics.

You won't need to look for one — the app has its own built-in guide on every screen, walking you step by step through what it does and how to use it.

Family Fair Play isn't in the app stores — it's a web app you add to your home screen straight from the browser. On iPhone in Safari via Share → Add to Home Screen; on Android in Chrome via Install app. On iPhone this is also required for notifications to work. See the article "How to add the app to your phone's home screen" for the full steps.

Yes. Click “Live demo” to open a fully-loaded sample household instantly — no email or password needed. It's read-only, so you can look around freely without breaking anything. When you're ready to make changes, create your own household: it starts pre-filled too, so there's nothing tedious to set up.

No. It measures both sides — physical time and mental load — and it often shows exactly what you weren't expecting. It isn't a judge. It's a mirror for both of you.

Both, and neither on its own. It works as a shared chore app for couples and families — tasks, who does what, a chore tracker for the kids with stars. What a printable chore chart cannot do is weigh the tasks. We score each one for time, mental load, how critical it is and how easily someone else could take it over, so ten ticks each stops looking like a fair split once one person is doing all the planning.

Adults first. Each household member gets a load profile — physical minutes and mental load side by side — and the fairness index is worked out across everyone, not only the children. The kids' stars sit on top of that; they are not the point of the app.

You send them a link — by message, WhatsApp or in person. They choose their own password; you don't make one up for them. The link is valid for 14 days and their member card shows whether they've opened it.

You both independently estimate how much of each area you do. The total almost always goes over 100 % — and that's normal, everyone remembers their own work best. That gap is the start of a conversation, not evidence against anyone.

No. Controlling the app with an AI agent is part of Premium and runs on the open WebMCP standard — you connect the AI you already use. No second subscription, and your family data doesn't go to another company; it stays between your account and your own AI.